Well done, you’ve finally taken the matter in hand and you’ve managed to arrange a threesome! Not many people can say that they’ve done that, and you’ve now got a lot to look forwards to. In fact it is a lot to deal with, so the question is: are you ready for what’s coming next? Because if you think you can just walk in there with your hands in your pocket then you’re mistaken. We’re not saying that threesomes can happen on the spur of the moment and unprepared; but if you’ve got the time to organize yourself ahead of the big date then there are a few things you may want to consider.

What sort of threesome?

Three people is a decent number, and in reality it will mainly translate as either two men and one woman; or one man and two women. Those are two completely different dynamics; and therefore it will make a massive difference in the experience you’re about to go through.

If you’re going to have sex tonight with a chick and one of your buddies, then you need to make sure you’re comfortable with getting naked in front of your friend. More than that; there will be times when your skin is touching and you will be sharing sweat and smells. If that’s a turn-off for you then you might want to reconsider getting into that threesome; unless of course you’re happy to just stay in the room and watch.

If you’re on your way to have sex with two women at the same time; then you need to be confident enough that you can give those ladies some pleasure. They might lead the way but you will also we expected to take the reins, so the question is are you ready to handle two chicks at once? Most people might originally think yes but you need to remember that pleasing just the one person can be difficult. Maybe a bit of talking and prep-work might be in order, that way you and those two ladies can manged each other’s expectations in the right way.

Practicalities

A threesome is like an event, you can organize it and make sure you have all the right resources you need. To start with you need to work out a location. Your house might not be ideal as you could find yourself at the mercy of two people; so a hotel room will probably be safest choice. Ideally if you can put some cash together then get a room with a Jacuzzi, shower and a minibar. That way everyone can get dirty and get clean afterwards. It might sound expensive at first but don’t forget you can split the costs three ways.

Don’t forget the essentials: condoms, lubricant, sex toys, uniforms… you name it. There’s a party going on there and you best come equipped! Take all the things that can make a sex party better, it’s going to be a wild one so use your imagination!

Finally take some spare clothes with you, it will avoid that ‘walk of shame’ look once you’re all good and done. Also make sure other members of the threesome take some spares with them. That way you can all go wild without having to worry about walking out afterwards.

There are probably more details to think about but you get the idea: get organized and prepared, logistically, physically and mentally and your threesome will be a night to remember!

 

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