If you want to know how to give an erotic massage to your partner you must be aware of how stimulating and arousing can such a massage be for your sex-life. Whatever the purpose of it is, be it foreplay, relaxation or closer connection of partners, its sensuality and pure eroticism will surely spice any amorous relationship up. So how do we reach it?

How to give an erotic massage – step by step

  1. Nice environment goes a long wayA comforting, clean and relaxing environment is of an utmost importance. When you want to treat someone like a god or a goddess and awake a desire in them then all the disruptive elements around are undesirable as they bring them back from the perfect fantasy of sensuality to the reality of a messy kitchen.

    Play around with the decoration as well. Pillows, silky blankets, soft mattresses on the ground. Petals thrown around in the room, dimmed lights and lit up aromatic candles together with your favorite relaxing music will boost the atmosphere of the whole act and it will help to loosen both the body and the mind.

  1. Make use of anything you find!Try to make use of as many tools as you can think of to keep the whole process from becoming boring and monotonous. Do you have essential oils with your favorite fragrance? Don’t hesitate and spread them over your partner’s body.

    Just like oils, certain kinds of fabric such as satin or silk can help you spice things up. You can use feathers to tease your partner tenderly with.

  2. Be preparedWhatever comes to your mind when that is said, make sure you have done everything you could to make your partner pleased and relaxed. Be in a good state of mind. Set a free day for the massage when you have enough time and there are no big arguments still felt. Ask beforehand what your partner would like.

    Loosen yourselves up before the massage in a hot bathtub and excite your better half with sexual desire whispering words in his ear and touch him tenderly.

  3. Start slowEven though you are about to spice your sex-life up with an erotic massage as a foreplay, bear in mind that it is still a massage. Start with normal full body massage – from face over the neck and lower back all the way to the legs and hands. Use the conventional massage techniques for now and leave the eroticism aside. You will grant your lover relaxation that way and strengthen his health as well.
  4. Merge techniques, play around, excite him in a thousand waysOnce you feel like it is time for the erotic part of the massage, start adding up some sensual moves to your previous motions. Touch his erogenous zones, kiss him, caress him, whisper in his ear and touch his genitals softly. Merge more techniques if you date – all the way from nuru massage to tantric massage and lingam or yoni massage even massage of the perineum which tends to be one of the most erogenous male zones.  

    Shift towards his intimate parts slowly and use the tools you have prepared. Be diverse, erotic, sexy and get him ready for the sexual intercourse itself gradually using intense touches and sensual originality.

Enjoy the fruits these methods bring from that point on. As you have read, there is nothing easier and more erotic than using massage as foreplay. Not only will such a massage grant your body a much-needed relaxation but it will also awaken sexual desire leading towards more intense sexual enjoyment. This will make you number one in bed which both you and your partner will appreciate.

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